Friday, November 18, 2011

Manage Stress Better

How often have you heard someone say, "I'm so stressed!"? Or how many times have you felt the same way? We face challenges every day: family, conflict, job and peer pressure, disagreements with friends and overdue bills. Stress fills every corner of our life and it is a fact of life.
What is stress? Stress is the emotional and physical way in which our bodies respond to pressure. Common stress include tension, irritability, inability to concentrate, and a variety of physical symptoms that include headache and a fast heartbeat. Prolonged stress causes weakness of the blood vessels and heart and further damage to our health if the situation remains unchanged.


How does stress affect the body?

There has been a lot of research over the last two decades and the results obtained clearly show that excessive stress could affect health:
  • Increases heart rate
  • Blood flow to your brain and muscles increases up to 400 percent
  • Your digestion stops (so it doesn't use up energy that's needed elsewhere)
  • Releases fatty acids into the bloodstream for energy that increases cholesterol and triglyceride levels
  • Your muscle tension increases
  • Increases blood clotting
  • Causes the spasm of coronary and other arteries

How stress can hurt us
  • Stress can cause chronic fatigue, digestive upsets, headaches, and back pain
  • Stress can affect the blood cells that help you fight off infection, so you are more likely to get colds and other diseases
  • Constant stress can increase blood pressure and can increase the risk for stroke
  • Stress can increase the danger of heart attacks, particularly if you are often angry and mistrustful
  • Stress can make an asthma attack worse
  • Stress triggers behaviors that contribute to death and disability, such as smoking, alcoholism, drug abuse, and overeating
  • Stress can lead to diminished sexual desire and an inability to achieve orgasm
  • Stress can make it harder to take other steps to improve health , such as giving up smoking or making changes in diet
Tips for reducing stress
  • Keep a positive attitude
  • Accept that there are events that you cannot control
  • Be assertive instead of aggressive. "Assert" your feelings, opinions, or beliefs instead of becoming angry, defensive, or passive
  • Learn and practice relaxation techniques
  • Exercise regularly. Your body can fight stress better when it is fit
  • Eat healthy, well-balanced meals
  • Get enough rest and sleep. Your body needs time to recover from stressful events
  • Don't rely on alcohol or drugs to reduce stress
  • Seek out social support
  • Learn to manage your time more effectively
Fitness facts
  • Exercise boosts brainpower
  • Movement melts away stress
  • Exercise gives you energy
  • It's not that hard to find time for fitness
  • Fitness can help build relationships
  • Exercise helps ward off disease
  • Fitness pumps up your heart
  • Exercise lets you eat more (muscle burns more calories at rest than body fat. So, the more muscle you have, the higher your resting metabolic rate. And of course, you also burn calories while you're actually exercising)
  • Exercise boosts performance
  • Weight loss is not the most important goals. Enhancing health has become another goal though
Ways to de-stress and eat less
  • Fit in fitness every day. Getting regular physical activity works wonders in coping with stress. Give your stress to the pavement or the treadmill and let it go from your body. 
  • Enjoy natural sunlight. A brisk walk in the sunshine can be a real mood enhancer.
  • Keep up your journal every day. Self-monitoring your food, fitness, and emotional feelings is an excellent way to become more aware of your triggers and behavioral patterns.
  • Don't deprive yourself of enjoying the foods you love, for this only leads to bingeing. Instead, plan to eat small portion of the desired foods, eat it slowly, and savor every mouthful.
  • Set some ground rules about eating (such as only eat while seated, no food after 9pm, no second helpings, etc.)
  • Identify the situations that cause overeating and develop a list of how you will handle these challenges. Be realistic. 
  • Relax. Give yourself 15 minutes each day of peace and quiet, a time to be reflective, meditate, or simply unwind. Soaking in a hot bubble bath can help release your troubles into thin air. Breaking free from the family, a breath of fresh air, or escaping to a quiet room will energize and empower you.
  • Be good to yourself.  Have a list of motivational sayings that inspire and strengthen your resolve. Use affirmations daily to help you feel good about yourself and your mission to lose weight.
  • Eat healthfully . Proper nutrition promotes health, well-being, and rejuvenation, which in turn enhances your resilience to stress.

Friday, November 11, 2011

Ai Tai Kong by Cyndi Wang



Song Title : Ai Tai Kong 爱太空
Singer : Cyndi Wang 王心凌

忘了从什么时候
wang le cong she me shi hou
I've forgotten since when

开始做同一个梦
kai shi zuo tong yi ge meng
Starting to have the same dream

你总是背对著我
ni zhong shi bei dui zhe wo
You always back faced me

怎么也不肯回头
zen me ye bu ken hui tou
Not going to turn around no matter what

当梦与现实交错
dang meng yu xian shi jiao cuo
When dreams and reality crisscrossed 

才发现爱变空了
cai fa xian ai bian kong le
Only then, realized love becomes empty

好像有一个黑洞
hao xiang you yi ge hei dong
Wish there is a black hole

把爱全都给吞没
ba ai quan dou gei tun mo

To engulf all the love

我终于渐渐明白
wo zhong yu jian jian ming bai

Finally, I gradually understand


爱太空那种无奈
ai tai kong na zhong wu nai
Helplessness of empty love

让我们看不到未来
rang wo men kan bu dao wei lai
We're unable to see the future

也没勇气能走开
ye mei yong qi neng zou kai
Also have no courage to leave

Chorus:
原来爱与不爱谁也不能置身
yuan lai ai yu bu ai shei ye bu neng zhi shen
So, to love or not, nobody can place oneself

室外
shi wai
Out of the situation

昨天明天都低不过一个现在
zuo tian ming tian dou di bu guo yi ge xian zai
Whether yesterday or tomorrow, it cannot be compare to present

我们都该著对自己坦白
wo men dou gai xue zhe dui zi ji tan bai
We all ought to learn to be honest

曾经爱过痛过哭过笑过都是
ceng jing ai guo tong guo ku guo xiao guo dou shi
As long as ever loved, ached, cried, laughed; it's consider as  

种精采
zhong jing cai
A wonderful experience

不要让爱空了对白
bu yao rang ai kong le dui bai
Don't ever allow empty dialogue in love

只剩下无奈
zhi sheng xia wu nai
Only left with helplessness

爱太空无法重来
ai tai kong wu fa chong lai

Love too empty unable to repeat again

Repeat from beginning

原来爱与不爱谁也不能置身
yuan lai ai yu bu ai shei ye bu neng zhi shen
So, to love or not, nobody can place oneself

室外
shi wai
Out of the situation

昨天明天都低不过一个现在
zuo tian ming tian dou di bu guo yi ge xian zai
Whether yesterday or tomorrow, it cannot be compare to present

我们都该著对自己坦白
wo men dou gai xue zhe dui zi ji tan bai
We all ought to learn to be honest

相信爱
xiang xin ai
Believe love

曾经爱过痛过哭过笑过都是
ceng jing ai guo tong guo ku guo xiao guo dou shi
As long as ever loved, ached, cried, laughed; it's consider as  

种精采
zhong jing cai
A wonderful experience

不要让爱空了对白
bu yao rang ai kong le dui bai
Don't ever allow empty dialogue in love

只剩下无奈
zhi sheng xia wu nai
Only left with helplessness

爱太空无法重来
ai tai kong wu fa chong lai

Love too empty unable to repeat again